How to turn your breakup/divorce into something positive!!

When going through this breakup/divorce you must know there will be a lot going on. In this moment you have to deal with the loss of love, who you are, and even the feeling of humiliation. It is sometimes hard to get yourself back up and running after all of the drama sometimes. Good thing is most humans hold a few amazing traits. One of those is the ability to see the light in all situations or (look on the bright side). Even though you are going through this breakup/divorce, know that it may seem like this is a negative chapter in your life, but you must make a positive thing rise from the ashes. There are a lot of feelings during separations  and we need to make sure your head stays in it for the post game. Here are 5 ways to use your breakup/divorce for positive change in your life.

1. Fall back in love with yourself

First and foremost you have to find that love you have for yourself again. A lot of times we beat ourselves up, if we are at fault in the situation or not. You must forgive yourself first. Understand that loving and staying true to yourself is the most important now. Find that self-worth deep inside of you and bring it out to play. You will need all the strength you can to win your heart back, but when its time its time.

2. Examine life goals

When people get in a relationship or get married, a lot of times they end up putting their life goals and dreams on hold for some reason. Maybe you all had children early in your marriage or just never got around to it. Now is the time to sit down and go over the "what if". Remember those goals and dreams you had for your life before you got married. Make a checklist list and use this opportunity to make a big change in your everyday life. Use this time to explore the things you might have never attempted had you been single.

3. Start over financially

In a breakup/divorce, a perfect example of getting your life back on track is a financial purge. This is when you completely start over financially. Most people who go through divorce end up starting over financially. Even if not by force, this is a great step in getting your life back. Clean up your debt, pay off as much as your can, and start a nest egg. You'll have just what you need, when you just change your relationship with money.

4. Grow yourself spiritually

You may have a need for some spiritual reconstruction in your life and that's great. Focusing on things like yoga and meditation are great for your overall health. Take the time to consult with your higher powers, they will help steer on the road to your spiritual awakening.

5. Remember karma is a .....Last but not least, make sure you remember the old saying " due unto others as you would have them do unto you. The law of attraction states like attracts like. If you’re putting out negative vibes you will receive the same thing back. Just remember that life is short and it's not worth it.

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You can do this!! Be strong and work on yourself for now. When it's time you'll know!!